Hello friends
This week's reading has been very fruitful on my side. When I heard we are going to learn about in-laws I was like it is about time. I loved how we were encouraged to cleave unto our partners and build our own families. Most of us think twice taking a decision to marry because of leaving our families behind. For me I wanted so bad to take my mother with me. The thing is I have stayed with her for almost half of my life a therefore leaving her behind was a strain. At home I was the only one that listened to her and did my best to make her happy. I even remember, how I did not want to go to anywhere living her behind. I guess I was smothered. She was ill and frail and needed someone to look after her. That is why some people refuse to get married.
When she gave me a blessing to get married, I was pleased. She said to me, she was old and would not be in this life forever and therefore I needed a stability and someone to love me when she is not around. Those words pierced my heart and still lives within me. It became a little bit better to cleave unto my husband and marriage and not going to my mom when things were not going well. Both of us decided to live away from our family members and start doing our own things, which was great. Doing that did strengthen our marriage and helped us to turn unto each other more fully. Even though we did face some difficulties with the in-laws, our love and understanding of cleaving unto each other helped us to be patient and understanding. We got into marriage with no expectations but rather with Faith that all will be well in the end and it did.
I would love to hear your stories about your own in-laws. Was it hard to leave your own mother or siblings?